Please stop calling me and making me feel guilty as if I did something wrong! I did not take another man on my husband. I did not cheat. I did not disrespect my marriage vows. Stay in your lane and run your own house. Just stop it! My health and healing is my priority right now and this blog has helped me and others.
PSA -When someone cheats please do not blame the wife or significant other. As a wife or significant other, know “you did nothing wrong”. Readers, please note that this group is here to help those recover from being cheated on and for healing, not for blame. We are not alone and here for each other.
A cheater cannot blame his wife or significant other by saying they caused them to cheat. A cheater cannot cop out and say, what do you want me to do, hurt myself? That is not fair and it is unacceptable.
Therapists state a cheater made a choice to sneak around, the wife or significant other has nothing to do with it.
Please stop telling me to stop my blog. I do not have children in the marriage. Still, I cannot erase 7 years of marriage in a snap. There is layers of pain and memories to sort through.
I have asked for a divorce so that everyone can move on. I got over the lies and have moved on from that call in late December 2019.
My blog is not responsible for anyone’s misdeeds. this is meant to inspire hope.
Positive affirmation: I am not responsible for anyone else’s actions.
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BROKENNESS: part of my shocking experience 