Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken.
— Oscar Wilde.
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First and foremost I would like to say you are a beautiful and very strong black woman! Although that was a serious blow to your phschy and your everything I commend you for not cuttin him and having a strong relationship with God that gave you enough control to not beat him for every ounce that he weigh. Although you have 7 years of happiness according to you my question to you is where do you go from here? What do you want to accomplish from this point on? Do you still love him? Could you ever get passed this with him? Or ware you willing to walk away from him forever? These are the questions I would ask myself if I were in your shoes. If it were me I would beat the bricks off of him and MORE! example: Keyed car, broke wind shield, sugar in gas tank, banana in the muffler, flat tires, pizza and Chinese food deliveries daily …..hell has no fury like a women scorned. But I have not experienced 7 years with a man but it sounds like he is remorseful and he wants to work it out. And I do believe with counseling with the both of you there is a possibility you both can make it. But love is not a feeling, it’s a choice. When you said your vows for better for worse sickness and in health for richer or poor, well……. this is for worse and at the end of the day only you can walk your walk and talk your talk because this is your life. Just know that what ever your decide I’m here as a friend always. To talk or to lean on I’m here, bless your heart this is quite the experience. Hurts my heart that you even have to experience this because you have a beautiful soul but this is exactly why so many people surrounded you with love, prayer and support. Gurl I got your back stay strong. I got the sugar ready if you need it.
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 Gurl, thank you. This was our 2nd marriage. His 2 kids were 10 and under. Now 20 and 16. I’ve decided I cannot do that again with a 3rd baby momma and child. No mending but I have forgiven. Thanks for the laugh. No jail time for me.
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Thank you for sharing your experience. I’ve known you for 5 years now, and during those 5 years you have been nothing but positivity, radiance, and just a delight to be around. You’re resilient, strong, and you will get through this. I would suggest yo take some time off to grief, to rediscover yourself outside of him, to go on a journey where you will truly find peace, and can laugh again without this ache and hurt in your heart. You’re in my prayers, and I want you to know that his actions are HIS. They do not define you, you are not responsible, or the cause of his betrayal. You are smart, beautiful, vibrant, and sexy. Don’t give up on love mama Sue. Keep your head up.
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I am reaching out to a therapist. Why? I have been betrayed and cheated on in 2 previous relationships. This one I was more vested in. I have to look in deeper perhaps. As I hurt, I know I am human and have to face all the facts. Thank you for your encouragement
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